worker+voice: per-conn context, store error hygiene, StateDir wiring, pipe leak

worker/server.go: dispatch now receives a per-connection context instead of
context.Background(), so handler cancellation propagates on conn close.

voice/server.go: same — per-conn context fed through safeDispatch into
HandlePushToTalk instead of context.Background().

store/reminders.go: propagate LastInsertId error.
store/nudges.go: propagate LastInsertId and RowsAffected errors.
store/tools.go: propagate RowsAffected error.

config/config.go: applyDefaults now respects StateDir when set, using it as
the base for empty DBPath/SocketPath instead of silently ignoring it.

phraser/llmphraser.go: close stderr pipe fd when cmd.Start() fails.

internal/store/nudges.go

@@ -42,7 +42,10 @@ func (s *Store) RecordNudge(ctx context.Context, rule, channel, message string,
 	if err != nil {
 		return 0, fmt.Errorf("record nudge: %w", err)
 	}
-	id, _ := res.LastInsertId()
+	id, err := res.LastInsertId()
+	if err != nil {
+		return 0, fmt.Errorf("record nudge: last insert id: %w", err)
+	}
 	return id, nil
 }
 
@@ -62,7 +65,10 @@ func (s *Store) ResolveNudge(ctx context.Context, id int64, outcome string, ts t
 	if err != nil {
 		return fmt.Errorf("resolve nudge: %w", err)
 	}
-	n, _ := res.RowsAffected()
+	n, err := res.RowsAffected()
+	if err != nil {
+		return fmt.Errorf("resolve nudge: rows affected: %w", err)
+	}
 	if n == 0 {
 		// either no such row, or it was already resolved — distinguish so callers
 		// can tell a bug from a race.

internal/store/reminders.go

@@ -34,7 +34,10 @@ func (s *Store) CreateReminder(ctx context.Context, fire time.Time, payload stri
 	if err != nil {
 		return 0, fmt.Errorf("create reminder: %w", err)
 	}
-	id, _ := res.LastInsertId()
+	id, err := res.LastInsertId()
+	if err != nil {
+		return 0, fmt.Errorf("create reminder: last insert id: %w", err)
+	}
 	return id, nil
 }
 

internal/store/tools.go

@@ -43,7 +43,10 @@ func (s *Store) ProposeTool(ctx context.Context, name, utterance string, ts time
 	if err != nil {
 		return false, fmt.Errorf("propose tool: %w", err)
 	}
-	n, _ := res.RowsAffected()
+	n, err := res.RowsAffected()
+	if err != nil {
+		return false, fmt.Errorf("propose tool: rows affected: %w", err)
+	}
 	return n > 0, nil
 }