Add digest as a real outcome: suppressed care nudges get resurfaced, not lost

Vikunja #281. The interruption policy promised four outcomes — deliver_now,
queue, digest, drop — but only three existed: a care candidate the restraint
gate suppressed for quiet hours / away / calendar-busy simply vanished in
loop.Tick's `continue`, with only the trace remembering why.

internal/morning turned out not to be the natural drain: it's a fixed
Item/FactKey checklist engine, not a generic message bundler, so gate-
suppressed nudge text has nowhere to plug into its evidence model. Built a
parallel (but small, reusing the outbox's shape) durable digest instead:

- internal/store: digest_entries table + EnqueueDigestEntry (dedupes by
  rule+body, mirroring the delivery outbox's bodyHash), PendingDigestEntries,
  ExpireStaleDigestEntries, DrainDigestEntries (mark, never delete — an
  audit trail of what she actually said).
- internal/loop: DigestEligible(severity, blockedBy) is the pure boundary —
  only genuine restraint blocks (quiet_hours/calendar_busy/presence) even
  qualify (cooldown/snooze are not "suppression"); within care, Sev2 (break)
  digests, Sev1 (water/meal — stale by the time anyone could resurface them)
  drops. High severity never digests; alarms bypass the gate and deliver
  unchanged, on purpose.
- cmd/mavend/tick.go: each tick scans ExplainTick's trace for eligible
  blocked candidates, enqueues them, sweeps stale entries (24h expiry — the
  care rules are daily-cadence, so anything older is describing a day
  that's over), and drains the bundle only once the suppression reason has
  actually cleared, capped at 3 spoken items plus a trailing count so a
  digest can't turn into the exact nagging it was built to avoid.

Tests: store-level round-trip/restart-survival/dedupe/expiry/drain, loop-
level severity-boundary unit tests, and tick-level integration tests for
the drain-only-when-clear and never-digest-high-severity behavior.

internal/loop/gate_test.go

@@ -286,6 +286,54 @@ func TestRemindersStillHonourSnooze(t *testing.T) {
 	}
 }
 
+// ---------------------------- digest eligibility ------------------------------
+
+// A Sev2 care candidate (break) suppressed for a genuine restraint reason is
+// worth resurfacing later.
+func TestDigestEligibleSev2SuppressedByRestraint(t *testing.T) {
+	for _, reason := range []string{"quiet_hours", "calendar_busy", "presence"} {
+		if !DigestEligible(Sev2, reason) {
+			t.Errorf("sev2 blocked by %q: want digest-eligible", reason)
+		}
+	}
+}
+
+// A Sev1 care candidate (water/meal) never digests — a biological timer
+// nudge is stale by the time anyone could resurface it, so it just drops.
+func TestDigestEligibleSev1NeverDigests(t *testing.T) {
+	for _, reason := range []string{"quiet_hours", "calendar_busy", "presence"} {
+		if DigestEligible(Sev1, reason) {
+			t.Errorf("sev1 blocked by %q: want drop, got digest-eligible", reason)
+		}
+	}
+}
+
+// Ops severities are never blocked by these reasons in practice (Gate only
+// applies quiet_hours/calendar_busy/presence to care severities), but the
+// boundary itself must refuse to digest a high severity even if asked —
+// alarms bypass the gate and deliver now, unchanged, never delayed.
+func TestDigestEligibleNeverDigestsHighSeverity(t *testing.T) {
+	for _, sev := range []Severity{Sev3, Sev4} {
+		for _, reason := range []string{"quiet_hours", "calendar_busy", "presence"} {
+			if DigestEligible(sev, reason) {
+				t.Errorf("sev%d blocked by %q: high severity must never digest", sev, reason)
+			}
+		}
+	}
+}
+
+// cooldown and snooze are not "suppression" in the digest sense — cooldown
+// means it was already said recently, snooze means the user asked to not
+// hear about it. Neither should resurface later just because the severity
+// matches.
+func TestDigestEligibleExcludesCooldownAndSnooze(t *testing.T) {
+	for _, reason := range []string{"cooldown", "snooze", "inert_no_data", "predicate", ""} {
+		if DigestEligible(Sev2, reason) {
+			t.Errorf("sev2 blocked by %q: should not be digest-eligible", reason)
+		}
+	}
+}
+
 // GAP — the gate reads State.SnoozeUntil, but the Gatherer hard-codes it to nil
 // (internal/loop/gather.go:153), so snooze is dead in the running daemon: the
 // unit tests above pass while nothing can ever populate the map. This asserts

internal/loop/loop.go

@@ -105,6 +105,36 @@ func Tick(s State, rules []Rule) *Candidate {
 	return fire
 }
 
+// DigestEligible decides digest-vs-drop for a care candidate the gate
+// suppressed this tick (see ExplainGate's blockedBy). Pure — no I/O, no
+// state, just the two facts that matter: why it was suppressed, and how
+// insistent it was.
+//
+// Only genuine RESTRAINT blocks are eligible at all — quiet_hours,
+// calendar_busy, presence(away). cooldown and snooze are not suppression in
+// this sense: cooldown means "you already heard this recently" (resurfacing
+// it later would be an actual repeat, not a rescue) and snooze is the user
+// explicitly saying "not this" (digesting it anyway would defeat the ask).
+// Ops severities (Sev3/4) never reach here — the gate never blocks them for
+// these reasons in the first place (see Gate), and even if a future rule
+// dropped Sev3+ into "care", digest still refuses them: alarms bypass the
+// gate on purpose and must never be silently delayed into a bundle.
+//
+// Within care (Sev1–2), the boundary is severity itself: Sev1 (water, meal —
+// biological timers with no "still relevant later" property; a water nudge
+// from 3 hours into quiet hours is just wrong by morning) drops. Sev2
+// (break — "you worked through a long stretch without a break while I
+// couldn't reach you") is information that stays true and useful after the
+// fact, so it digests.
+func DigestEligible(sev Severity, blockedBy string) bool {
+	switch blockedBy {
+	case "quiet_hours", "calendar_busy", "presence":
+	default:
+		return false
+	}
+	return sev == Sev2
+}
+
 // ReminderDecision — a due reminder the daemon should deliver now.
 // NOT gated by the universal Gate (per spec: "wake me 7" fires in quiet hours;
 // that's the point). Snooze is the one part of restraint that still applies.