Say it the way she'd actually say it

Wording fixes from the review of the clarify + phrasing PRs.

- "На когда напомнить?" → "Когда?". After she has just been asked something,
  the long form is the phrasing of a form field, not of a person.
- A reminder now wants a subject as well as a time. "напомни в 11" had a time
  and nothing to say at 11, and she asked nothing at all — she now asks
  "О чём напомнить?". Subject first, since a reminder with no subject is not
  worth setting.
- The expiry notice is five phrasings picked at random instead of one fixed
  sentence. It is the line he hears every time he walks off mid-request, so it
  is the line that repeats most.
- The nudge prompt's ban on "обращения" is now "ласковые обращения". It was
  meant to forbid "милый"/"дорогой", not his name — "Ками, ноутбук на трёх
  процентах" is how she talks, and the eval's cringe check already only flags
  pet names.
- The nudge example no longer claims she plugged the laptop in. She has no
  hands and no smart plug; an example where she acts teaches the model to
  invent actions Maven never took.
- replySystem: "тепло" → "спокойно и без официальных формулировок". A one-word
  mood instruction a 1.7B can't act on, replaced with the behaviour meant.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01CGeSZxh1DCtRxmFVSYVGvJ

cmd/mavend/clarify_test.go

@@ -56,10 +56,13 @@ func TestClarifyQuestionForMissingSlot(t *testing.T) {
 		want  string
 		asked bool
 	}{
-		{"reminder without a time", clarifyDec(router.IntentReminder, router.Slots{Text: "напомни позвонить маме"}, "напомни позвонить маме"), "На когда напомнить?", true},
+		{"reminder without a time", clarifyDec(router.IntentReminder, router.Slots{Text: "напомни позвонить маме"}, "напомни позвонить маме"), "Когда?", true},
 		{"fact without a key", clarifyDec(router.IntentFact, router.Slots{Text: "запиши"}, "запиши"), "Что записать?", true},
 		{"act without a fn", clarifyDec(router.IntentAct, router.Slots{Text: "сделай это"}, "сделай это"), "Что сделать?", true},
-		{"reminder that already has a time", clarifyDec(router.IntentReminder, router.Slots{HasTime: true}, "напомни в 11"), "", false},
+		// A time with nothing to say at that time is still half a reminder, so
+		// the subject is what she asks about — not silence.
+		{"reminder that has a time but no subject", clarifyDec(router.IntentReminder, router.Slots{HasTime: true}, "напомни в 11"), "О чём напомнить?", true},
+		{"reminder that has both", clarifyDec(router.IntentReminder, router.Slots{Text: "позвонить маме", HasTime: true}, "напомни в 11 позвонить маме"), "", false},
 		{"chat is never worth a question", clarifyDec(router.IntentChat, router.Slots{Text: "мгм"}, "мгм"), "", false},
 		{"query is never worth a question", clarifyDec(router.IntentQuery, router.Slots{Text: "а"}, "а"), "", false},
 	}
@@ -78,7 +81,7 @@ func TestClarifyReminderCompletesOnAnswer(t *testing.T) {
 	h, st, _ := newClarifyHandler(t)
 
 	question, asked := h.askClarify(clarifyDec(router.IntentReminder, router.Slots{Text: "напомни позвонить маме"}, "напомни позвонить маме"))
-	if !asked || question != "На когда напомнить?" {
+	if !asked || question != "Когда?" {
 		t.Fatalf("expected the time question, got %q asked=%v", question, asked)
 	}
 
@@ -152,7 +155,7 @@ func TestClarifyAsksThreeTimesThenSaysSo(t *testing.T) {
 		if !handled {
 			t.Fatalf("answer %d must be consumed as an answer", i)
 		}
-		if reply != "На когда напомнить?" {
+		if reply != "Когда?" {
 			t.Fatalf("attempt %d should ask again, got %q", i, reply)
 		}
 		if h.clarifyStore.Get(voiceDialogueID, h.now()) == nil {
@@ -304,17 +307,17 @@ func TestClarifyExpiryIsAnnouncedAndWordsStillRoute(t *testing.T) {
 	*now = now.Add(clarifyTTL + time.Second)
 
 	reply := h.handleText(ctx, "как дела")
-	if !strings.HasPrefix(reply, clarifyExpired) {
+	if !isClarifyExpired(reply) {
 		t.Fatalf("expired question must be announced first, got %q", reply)
 	}
-	if strings.TrimSpace(strings.TrimPrefix(reply, clarifyExpired)) == "" {
+	if trimClarifyExpired(reply) == "" {
 		t.Fatalf("the new words must still be answered, got only the notice: %q", reply)
 	}
 	if h.clarifyStore.Get(voiceDialogueID, h.now()) != nil {
 		t.Fatal("the expired question must be gone")
 	}
 	// The notice is said once, not on every later utterance.
-	if reply := h.handleText(ctx, "как дела"); strings.Contains(reply, clarifyExpired) {
+	if reply := h.handleText(ctx, "как дела"); isClarifyExpired(reply) {
 		t.Fatalf("notice repeated on a later turn: %q", reply)
 	}
 }