Write down the bound on suspension (V-654)

docs/design.md

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 # Maven — Design
 
-*Last verified: 2026-08-02 @ 7079a24. Living doc: correct it in place, do not append.*
+*Last verified: 2026-08-07 @ beb093a. Living doc: correct it in place, do not append.*
 
 > Folded 2026-07-30 from `SPEC.md` (north star, 2026-07-03), `maven.md`
 > (consolidated decisions, 2026-06-30) and `ROADMAP.md` (execution plan,
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 So the notice stays what it is: the in-process TTL case, where she really did
 wait and really did let go.
 
+#### A parked question may step aside three times
+
+Decided 2026-08-07 (V-654). A side query or an aside suspends the parked
+question instead of dropping it. The words are answered as themselves, and the
+question comes back on the end of the same reply.
+
+Neither bound on a question reaches that path. No attempt is spent, because a
+side query is not a failed answer, so `MaxAttempts` never applies.
+`noteSuspended` also restarts the 90s clock, since she is about to speak the
+question again. So the TTL cannot arrive while he keeps talking.
+
+Measured on 2026-08-07: one unfilled time slot rode the tail of six consecutive
+unrelated replies. It stopped only when a seventh turn happened to read as a
+failed answer. See `docs/evals/2026-08-07-week-of-usage.md`.
+
+`PendingQuestion.Suspends` counts the step-asides. `MaxSuspends` is 3, matching
+`DefaultMaxAttempts`. Past it she lets the request go, with the same
+`clarifyDropped` line every other drop uses. The owner's rule is unchanged. A
+question still ends by being answered or by being let go out loud. This only
+recognises three unrelated requests in a row as the second of those.
+
+The count is of CONSECUTIVE step-asides. It resets the moment he answers, in
+`resolveClarifyAnswer`. An answer that gives her nothing she asked for resets it
+too. "Позвонить маме" against a question about the time is still him in the
+exchange. The retry it costs is bound enough on its own.
+
+The re-ask is also two sentences rather than one. It used to be spliced onto the
+answer with a comma. On a real answer that buries the question in the tail of
+one run-on thought:
+
+> вот что я нашла: вайфай пароль лежит в ящике стола, на какое время поставить
+> напоминание?
+
 ### save-where — the two-memory routing axis
 
 One discriminator: **does the loop evaluate a predicate against it?**